5 Positive reasons for teenage and adult females to abort a baby

The title is a “Play on words” and is not telling anyone to end a child’s life. These are really “5” excuses that females and/or the father of the child will give to justify their decision to abort.

Positive reasons to abort are (1) I am positive that I am too young to raise this child (2) I am positive that I do not love the father of this unborn child (3) I am Positive that I (or we) can not afford to have this child (4) I am positive that this child will destroy the future that I have planned for myself (5) and I am positive that if I am single and religious that I want to hide this pregnancy from all those who know me.

The only problem with the above 5 “Positive” statements is that they all have negative consequences that harm the child, both parents of the child and the 2 families they are part of.

The “Pro-Baby” Movement

The majority of people on the planet believe “All” unborn babies have a right to experience “Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”. And I am sad to say that the majority of most societies refuse to acknowledge that people are suffering from post-abortion trauma and therefore need to experience forgiveness and healing of their memories and thereafter have the opportunity to live the abundant life.

Most mature and loving human beings will not have a “Critical spirit”, concerning my poems, simply because they are “Pro-Baby”. They will want to share my “Let the unborn live” message!!!

The thoughts that dance in the mind of humans, is conceived in their heart and hinges on the pivotal question that ushers in the un-deserved “death penalty” for the unborn; or the joyous excitement, anticipating the soon coming birth of a child.

The question that answers the complex motive for a person’s actions after conception is “is the pregnancy and baby wanted or rejected by one or both parents (or families) of the child”?

The Thoughts of the Unborn POEM

Pain is so real and it’s easy to see

It all happens to you and me

I know we are born to die

But at such a young age I don’t understand why

I was so young and didn’t understand

God would allow a change that I had not planned

I had no control over when I would go

But this I know I love you so

I live in your heart I am happy to say

Always there no matter what you think or pray

I love you and want you to love me

That’s the way it should be

You weren’t perfect I know quite well

God gave us each other I am happy to tell

Our hearts are melted together and it’s easy to see why

Our love will never die

For you are special to me

And always will be

Thank God for giving to me

An opportunity for a life you see

Mom and dad, please don’t be too sad

You can learn from your mistakes for which I am glad

And if another child should come your way

Do what is right is all I can say

You didn’t steal eternity from me

For I am a creation of God you see

No one is righteous before our dear Savior

Our thoughts are wrong including our behavior

I am crushed and heartbroken

No comfort my soul has ever been spoken

All of us do wrong and compare ourselves with others

We are not more righteous* than hysterical pregnant mothers

And if most women-with-child were loved by the child’s father

they would smile and happily say “No abortion” why bother

You have hidden or damaged emotions buried in a sea of pain

Release them and you have everything to gain

Ask God and the person you mated with to forgive you

Forgive yourself and your life will start anew

*Romans 3:10,12

To be, or not to be…Born —POEM

God created me in a physical way

When my parents made love on that special day

Being secure in my mother’s womb

She had no plans of it becoming my tomb

It didn’t matter if I was healthy or planned

My loving mother took a stand

To give me life without the strife

Avoiding the doctor’s cold steel knife

She made the right choice

Later to smile at hearing my voice

As I look back to that day

I stop and take the time to pray

Thank you, God, for giving to me

A mother who decided to let me be

For others wouldn’t be so kind

To give me life when they are spiritually blind

There is a time for each to be born

Truly their mother will receive no scorn

From the loving God above

Who looks down on her act of love

I BELIEVE THAT TEENAGE AND ADULT MALES ARE THE PRIMARY CAUSE FOR THE ABORTION DILEMMA AROUND THE WORLD. They will be judged with a very severe harsh judgment that most women will not receive. The man has more responsibility because he is the initiator of most relationships and the woman is the responder.

Females have an inborn nature or desire to give birth to their unborn child. However, when she becomes aware that the father of her child has no real desire to commit to the family he has started; she then is devastated to the point of hysteria. She doesn’t want to raise the child on her own (in near poverty); she doesn’t want to give it up for adoption (and worry about him or her); and she seeks an abortion because it appears to be a solution that will stop her present and ongoing pain of feeling used, unloved and rejected.

Most men sow their seeds and pray for a crop failure. A woman can love almost any man if she knows he will be responsible for his actions and have a commitment to love the unborn child and its mother.

There is an untold number of men and women who have shed tears over their response to an unwanted pregnancy. Maybe my message will give them hope that forgiveness is not only possible but also a promise from God. And they do not need to carry this burden any longer.

I have found that a personal relationship with The Promised Messiah has cleansed and will continue to cleanse me from all of my sins, past, present, and future!!!

I told someone that I am doing my part in stopping abortion; I am not getting anyone pregnant. L.O.L.

The primary issue is not what happened in your past concerning abortion; but do you know and feel you are forgiven “Now”!!! Your forgiveness isn’t based on feelings, but as a human you have them.




Since you love the unborn, then share this letter with your family, friends, strangers and especially Christian organizations around the world.

If you want to send me a love offering via PayPal.com using Arthur@ArthurTrafford.com as my PayPal account address.

If you share my letter with others and don’t send me a dime, I am still a very blessed Christian.

God bless you, your family and the Unborn!!!

P.S. No Pro-Life groups will publish my Pro-Baby essay or the 2 poems because it would cost them their jobs if all pregnant mothers read my essay and poems and changed their minds and delivered a healthy baby. I don’t mention the names of these groups, because I don’t want to be sued by them L.O.L.

If someone mails or emails my essay and poems to a Pro-Life group and they don’t publish them, then tell the group that you and your religious leaders will refuse to support their group financially from now on.

It is all about “Show me the money” over the past 43 years. Pro-Life staff members like having that new house and cars and job security. And they don’t want to be laid off, especially since they have a job that makes them appear more righteous and religious than those common people working in a bank, grocery store and other places of employment.